For all of our readers out there, this is the format in which we will be hosting our weekly (sometimes daily) secret answer sessions. After a secret that we see as intriguing and possibly entertaining is submitted from our secret submission form we will then move forward and answer it in a new post. All submissions are kept anonymous for the privacy of the submitter. With that being said, we hope you enjoy the first ever PGP Q/A. Don’t forget to leave your comments below with any advice or questions you have.
Hey PGP Board,
I have a dilemma and I am GLAD I found your site when I did. I can’t talk to anyone about this because it literally has to do with my best friend and my sister. I can’t turn to my family because I am afraid they will spill the beans. I can’t turn to my friends because well they are friends with my best friend. This leaves me with no other option but to come to you for advice. I figured it wouldn’t hurt for a little advice.
So here is the situation… My sister and best friend are dating and have been for around 3 years. I recently spotted my very own sister with another man at a bar the other night. I figured it was just a friendly gathering until I saw them making out. As much as I am wanting to tell my best friend I don’t want to throw my sister under the bus. 1 because my parents would be p/o’d at me and my sister. Either way it is a lose lose. If I don’t tell me best friend he will continue to be getting cheated on probably. If I snitch on my sis she will be not s forgiving to say the least. WHAT SHOULD I DO????
Thanks for the question. This is a very tricky situation but we think we have the right answer for you. The way you should play this is to somehow let your best friend know. The best solution is to have someone else hint at it to him. That way you aren’t the bad guy in this situation. Have someone he is close to do it so they have some credibility and see if that does the trick. If doesn’t then you might have to do it yourself.
Let us know if this works. Keep us updated on the sticky situation. We know this is a tough one but YOU CAN DO IT!